Speaking the truth nobody really is normal!
Aren’t we all suffering from various issues whether it being physical, emotional or mental? Who gets to decide what is normal and what is not?
Anxiety issues, bipolar disorder, anger issues and God knows what not, each one of us goes through each phase in our lifetime and just because some researchers published that having any of the above issues is abnormal or out of the ordinary, we started treating ourselves inferior to others, making that our weakness and instead of working on it and getting better, we have accepted that we won’t get any better because some scientists said we are not normal!
For an example let us consider the various colours we have; Are any of the colours same?
Nope, they are not! They all are beautiful in their own way right? It takes all such different colours to make up the beautiful world we have doesn’t it? Can you imagine a world in just one colour? No you can’t!
For another example let me ask you a question again, What is considered as normal? To go with the very basic meaning it would mean what the majority mass is doing or is! Doesn’t that sound much like one sheep following the other over the cliff and hence the whole herd follows? Majority of the mass is poor on this Earth? Does that make them normal? Well if it does then why is everyone trying to become rich?
Just imagine for a moment that if everyone in this world was alike and completely same to the other individuals then would the word creativity have existed? Definitely not! And without creativity how could we have figured out the solution to our problems because it takes a different perspective to solve a problem than what it was created in!
Being abnormal is infact the very thing that makes you better and different than others and if channeled in a right way, it can be used as your USP(Unique selling point), which is a very important criteria in an interview. For an example majority of the people have anger issues and nothing is wrong with that. It’s a type of emotions and it should exist because that’s what sets us apart from animals! Coming back to the point if you just channelize that anger into a positive direction then imagine the possibility of things you can do with that much amount of energy!
The problem with the mass is they are either trying to hide their emotions or trying to suppress it or just using it in the wrong direction and that is what creates more problems for them because emotion is an energy and energy can never be destroyed, only converted from one form to another! Emotion itself means energy in motion! Learn to use your emotions for you and not against you and trust me that’ll create wonders in your life!
Nobody really says this to us but I m gonna say it to you,
IT’S OKAY IF YOU THINK YOU ARE NOT NORMAL, NOBODY REALLY IS, SOME ARE JUST CHEATING THEIR OWNSELVES IF THEM SEEM TO BE NORMAL!
NOTHING REALLY WORTH APPRECIATING CAME OUT OF BEING NORMAL!
Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.