Are you Normal?

Speaking the truth nobody really is normal!

Aren’t we all suffering from various issues whether it being physical, emotional or mental? Who gets to decide what is normal and what is not?

Anxiety issues, bipolar disorder, anger issues and God knows what not, each one of us goes through each phase in our lifetime and just because some researchers published that having any of the above issues is abnormal or out of the ordinary, we started treating ourselves inferior to others, making that our weakness and instead of working on it and getting better, we have accepted that we won’t get any better because some scientists said we are not normal!

For an example let us consider the various colours we have; Are any of the colours same?

Nope, they are not! They all are beautiful in their own way right? It takes all such different colours to make up the beautiful world we have doesn’t it? Can you imagine a world in just one colour? No you can’t!

For another example let me ask you a question again, What is considered as normal? To go with the very basic meaning it would mean what the majority mass is doing or is! Doesn’t that sound much like one sheep following the other over the cliff and hence the whole herd follows? Majority of the mass is poor on this Earth? Does that make them normal? Well if it does then why is everyone trying to become rich?

Just imagine for a moment that if everyone in this world was alike and completely same to the other individuals then would the word creativity have existed? Definitely not! And without creativity how could we have figured out the solution to our problems because it takes a different perspective to solve a problem than what it was created in!

Being abnormal is infact the very thing that makes you better and different than others and if channeled in a right way, it can be used as your USP(Unique selling point), which is a very important criteria in an interview. For an example majority of the people have anger issues and nothing is wrong with that. It’s a type of emotions and it should exist because that’s what sets us apart from animals! Coming back to the point if you just channelize that anger into a positive direction then imagine the possibility of things you can do with that much amount of energy!

The problem with the mass is they are either trying to hide their emotions or trying to suppress it or just using it in the wrong direction and that is what creates more problems for them because emotion is an energy and energy can never be destroyed, only converted from one form to another! Emotion itself means energy in motion! Learn to use your emotions for you and not against you and trust me that’ll create wonders in your life!

Nobody really says this to us but I m gonna say it to you,

IT’S OKAY IF YOU THINK YOU ARE NOT NORMAL, NOBODY REALLY IS, SOME ARE JUST CHEATING THEIR OWNSELVES IF THEM SEEM TO BE NORMAL! 

NOTHING REALLY WORTH APPRECIATING CAME OUT OF BEING NORMAL!

Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

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Wanna win in life, always? Apply the video game mindset!!!!

Trying to comprehend what did I just say ??

Try harder on your own or else just read on and you’ll understand!!

Each and every single one of you has played a video game sometime in their lifetime, right?? What do you do when you lose the very first time you lose ? Do you just give in ? Do you just start throwing tantrums and maybe throw the game too? Not in the majority cases right ? So what do you do ?

You just start the game all over again and try to win it the very next time, isn’t it? What if you lose again? You still don’t throw away the game nor do any of the other stuff mentioned above, or do you ?😂😂

You just start it all over again with a positive approach, thinking and believing you’ll definitely get it this time! You collect all your motivation and restart the game and this time your confidence is also at its peak but guess what you lose again! And that keeps on happening for like 10 times, 20 times? Do you still give in? Majority cases, nope right? You just go to sleep and try again the very next day! In other words you just keep on trying until the game gives in and you just don’t, isn’t it?

So what’s wrong in applying the same mindset in every aspect of life too? That’s what is the biggest key to success and that is what people don’t understand! The system present right now is broken and it cannot be fixed within a day or so, but you can definitely improve your way of approaching a certain problem or situation to improve your odds of winning!

The point I am trying to make here is whether the one who comes first in the video game really that talented or has he just practiced more than you ? Obviously the latter one, right? So when you lose in real life, why do you start blaming other person talent for his wins or your losses? WHY???

Let’s take one more example which would make things more clearer than before! All of you have played cricket too sometime or the other in your life, right? So when you played and you got out during the first match did you not take up your batting in the second match too just because you got out in the first match itself? Nope, right? That’s exactly my point here, instead you try a bit more harder in the second match, don’t you?

Remember the quote,

Hardwork beats talent every single time, the talent which you see is cheaper than table salt in this world, all it takes is persistence and hardwork to beat any of the greatest talent in the world.”

Secondly when actually applying this mindset in life, consider your life as a game of cricket, with no fielders or any other batsman or even wickets. It’s just you who’s batting on the crease and there’s life who’s bowling the ball one by one. The balls which are thrown at you are the opportunities. Now as there are no fielders or wickets, you cannot get out even if you want to. So when one by one life starts throwing ball at you, a situation arises such that you miss the first ball, then unfortunately the second one, then the third, unfortunately the forth too, guess what fifth one wasn’t any better either, but when the next or the sixth ball came you were fully prepared and knew which type of ball was coming so you just came out of the crease and hit a six on that very ball! Imagine the crowd cheering for you when you did that after 5 dot balls! Also if you saw you missed 5 opportunities but you took the total benefit in the 6th ball directly!

The only point am trying to make here is that, just like I have stated in my previous blogs too and that is in life you always have two choices and that is whether to face the next upcoming ball that is thrown at you or just run away even when you don’t have the fear of getting out! So it’s your choice in the end basically because one thing is for sure and that is you cannot lose until you run away from the crease, forever!

Thank you all so much for reading this and for the wonderful reviews on all the previous blogs.Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

Event and Dates…

No certainly not am not google or a 5th class kid telling you what is an event and a date. This is something different than all the definition you have read or heard so far. But let me begin with the dictionary meaning of it.

Date – The specified day of the month

Event – A special set of circumstances.

But those were just the dictionary meanings of those words which were loud and clear and so I don’t need to explain that but what about their actual meaning which no one talks about or tells you about?

Emm? Confused? Stunned? Bewildered?

Well you should be and I promise you will be after you read this blog completely. Because I am going to tell you the real meaning of those two words and guess what its beyond your wildest dreams.

How about we start with the basics first? So here it begins we all know that there is a specific date everyday, right? And whenever something happens which is not installed into our brain as our routine we term that day or time as an event? Don’t we?

Suppose today would be any x date but if you had to attend any family function or any other function you just term it as an event.

But that’s where the whole human race is going wrong because the actual event is the day or the time when you actually enjoyed that part , let it be for any reason or so,

It might just meeting or talking to an old friend after a long time or just getting an extra hour with your family or parents for just talking to them.

There could endless examples to this and so it can never end but to explain it to you in short and sweet, I would say that the time or day whichever you felt in your life that you invested well or used well is an event and all the other days in your calendars are just a bunch of dates which are going to torture you the whole year!

Sandeep Maheswari has well stated,

” All those days where you live your life to the fullest is an event and all the others are just dates in your calendars”

Thank you all so much for reading this and for the wonderful reviews on all the previous blogs.Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

There’s a difference between playing to win and playing not to lose….

Maximum people in this world are unhappy not because they are suffering from poverty or a health issues, but it’s their fear of failure that robs them of their excitement of winning.

So what did I mean when I said that,

“There’s a difference between people who play to win and those who play not to lose.”?

Well that is exactly defined by two people who get a bronze medal and a silver medal in any competition.

You’ll generally see that the person who has won the bronze medal is happier than the person winning the silver medal, it’s because the one with the bronze was playing to win and the one who won the silver was playing not to lose, the former knows what would have happened if he had failed however that Wasn’t the case with the silver medalist.

Maximum people lose in the stock market because they enter it with the mindset of not losing rather than winning, that is what happens when we are competing against someone and we know that they are really good at it.

There are two well known quotes for it,

“After Preparing for Success, Expect It.”

“If you believe you will fail, there is no hope for you. You will.”

The people who are playing with the mindset of not losing, lose the most amount of things. And if you are competing to learn then you cannot lose ever!

That doesn’t imply that I m telling you to stop trying to win or not come first because winning is what counts in the game, coming in second is like kissing your sister!

To sum it up I would say just give it your best shot in whatever you might be pursuing but don’t be disheartened if it doesn’t work coz it takes a hell lot years to reach what people know as overnight success!!!

Thank you all so much for reading this and for the wonderful reviews on all the previous blogs.Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

Be KIND, that’s what the world needs at the moment.

I’d like to begin my blog with one of the saying which I have already stated in one of my previous blogs and that is,

“IN THE WORLD OF FAME WHERE YOU CAN BE ANYTHING, BE KIND.”

Being kind doesn’t always mean you have to do a big donation to anyone needy but actually the opposite. Being kind doesn’t actually cost money.

Bring a smile to a person who has been going through a rough day, and it might just make up their whole day, and that surely doesn’t cost unless you do want to spend.

Start just by doing small things which you think doesn’t make much a difference like saying thank you to everyone who has done smallest of the small thing for you. Especially your parents even if you think you don’t need to thank your mother for the meal she made today! Even that one thank you can make her whole day!!!

Start by making your own bed and on weekends when you get time, do your own laundry and clean the vessels and it certainly will make her day even more than you think it will. I swear she’ll be all over you for doing such small works! And there’s another hidden upside and that is you’ll always get her on your side when there’s a fight between the siblings .😂

Why do we think that to make someone’s day we need to do something really big like planning a party. You can just send them a small ‘THANK YOU’ card and they’d still feel so very important.

Again ‘KINDNESS DOESN’T COST MONEY.’

Whenever you meet someone or pass someone on the way greet them with smile and if they are having a bad day, you might actually make them forget their worries for at least next five minutes.

You might have also heard,

‘A smile is a curve that sets everything else straight.’

Even if making someone else’s day isn’t one of your priorities, when you smile or laugh, it’ll make your day too and will be better able to handle problems. And even if you had a rough day but you had been kind to someone in the day, you’ll still sleep better and so it’s definitely worth it!

Mark Twain has well said,

“Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.”

I believe a little thought and a little kindness are often worth more than a great deal of money.

People believe in various religions and gods, but I have just this simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.

Now to end it on a good note, I would just say,

Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again.

Thank you all so much for reading this and for the wonderful reviews on all the previous blogs. Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

How isn’t important! Why is!

“How” isn’t important isn’t what many people are going to agree on to. But to be brutally honest here it’s one of the very core truths of life.

Well let’s take up an example of you being given a very very difficult but yet possible task to do that too in a limited time. At the very first moment it definitely seems next to impossible, but when you would be having a strong enough reason to do it, you’ll surely score!

That’s the solution to every difficulty problem in your life right now. That’s the secret of scoring high in a test by studying just a night before the test. That’s the real smart way to work through.

You don’t need to make any high profile plans for passing a test with flying grades, what you need is just that little push of creating a “WHY” so strong that no matter how many times you fall down, you’ll get up every single time.

This is the exact same reason as to why 9 out of every 10 businesses fail within 5 years of their foundation.

Coming back to the topic, people usually find an excuse saying,

‘I really wanna do that but I can’t figure out a way to.’ Well my dear stop fooling each and everyone around you and even if not that at least stop fooling your own self into thinking that you really want to do that, because if you really wanted to, you would have figured out a way.

That’s where the old saying which is quite common comes to be true and that is, “Necessity is the mother of invention.”

Well there’s a short story I would like to tell you about and that goes as,

Once in SOCRATES times, as he was a very wise and knowledgeable person, someone went to him and asked “What can I do to get successful?”

He replied come next day to the river and I’ll give you the answer.

He went there next day and Socrates was standing there in middle of the river talking to another person and waiting for him to come.

He went to him(Socrates), and asked for his answer,

To this Socrates put that person’s head under the water and held him there for quite some time, and that man was struggling to breathe.

As soon as he was in a position to talk he asked Socrates in angry tone as to why he did that, when he had just asked for an answer to his question. To this Socrates replied,

‘This was the answer to your question.’

The man stunned by his answer and decided to leave angrily and that very moment Socrates again spoke and what he said changed that person’s life forever and it has changed every person’s life including mine who has heard it.

And those words were,

“When you were under the water, the only thing you wanted or craved for was oxygen to breathe and nothing else and the effort you made there was fantastic, but the only way to be successful is to want that thing more than you craved oxygen under that water and if you are able to do that, nobody not even God can stop you from getting what you want.”

That is exactly the reason I wrote the title as,

“How” isn’t important, “Why” is!!!

Because once you have figured out for yourself a ‘WHY’, you wouldn’t have to find anything else, not even the energy to put in extra efforts, it’ll come out on its own, the persistence that was needed to make any other company or human successful in this world, would be yours automatically, only if you get a strong enough “WHY”.

Thank you all so much for reading this and for the wonderful reviews on all the previous blogs. Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

HUMAN BEING and BEING HUMAN..

Sounds quite the same doesn’t it?

Well in today’s world it has become exactly opposite to each other.

Human beings and animals can be now termed as synonyms instead.

Sounds rude doesn’t it?

Well it is truly said,

“There’s nothing more bitter in this world than hard core truth.”

There’s actually no difference left between human being and animals.

Like the animals only specifically care for their own or to utmost their families, to all the others’ they turn a blind eye, and even more they are ready to eat or kill them, which is exactly the same scenario for the humans now-a-days.

Human being has become so selfish in its core nature that it can even think about what is right or wrong without thinking, what it is in for them?

Someone has well stated,

“We have taught manners and etiquettes to animals and now we have to teach humanity to humans!”

And that is the biggest reason which makes the difference between BEING HUMAN and HUMAN BEING.

Half of the humans keep pets for recovering from their own loneliness and not because they care about the animals. In that sense even the animals are better than humans. They at least stay loyal to their masters, which now-a-days is the rarest quality to find in humans.

Being human is the habit of doing good for others in whatever condition we are in whatever way possible without thinking about our own selves or what good is it in for them?

Doing good doesn’t just mean doing it for the other person just when he is watching you, but actually other way around. Don’t try and show off your good deeds instead try and keep it to yourself and that will make you more happy!!! So my advice be kind to people and help people, without expecting anything in return.

And that’s the reason it is well stated that,

“If you expect in return for being a good person you are not a good person.”

And so to end it on a good note, just a simple request to everyone reading it, “In the world of fame where you can be anything, be kind.”

So that’s it I hope you guys have understood the difference and I hope we all try and be BEING HUMAN rather than HUMAN BEING. Only then we can save this Earth for our future generations.

Thank you all so much for reading this and for the wonderful reviews on all the previous blogs.Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.