HUMAN BEING and BEING HUMAN..

Sounds quite the same doesn’t it?

Well in today’s world it has become exactly opposite to each other.

Human beings and animals can be now termed as synonyms instead.

Sounds rude doesn’t it?

Well it is truly said,

“There’s nothing more bitter in this world than hard core truth.”

There’s actually no difference left between human being and animals.

Like the animals only specifically care for their own or to utmost their families, to all the others’ they turn a blind eye, and even more they are ready to eat or kill them, which is exactly the same scenario for the humans now-a-days.

Human being has become so selfish in its core nature that it can even think about what is right or wrong without thinking, what it is in for them?

Someone has well stated,

“We have taught manners and etiquettes to animals and now we have to teach humanity to humans!”

And that is the biggest reason which makes the difference between BEING HUMAN and HUMAN BEING.

Half of the humans keep pets for recovering from their own loneliness and not because they care about the animals. In that sense even the animals are better than humans. They at least stay loyal to their masters, which now-a-days is the rarest quality to find in humans.

Being human is the habit of doing good for others in whatever condition we are in whatever way possible without thinking about our own selves or what good is it in for them?

Doing good doesn’t just mean doing it for the other person just when he is watching you, but actually other way around. Don’t try and show off your good deeds instead try and keep it to yourself and that will make you more happy!!! So my advice be kind to people and help people, without expecting anything in return.

And that’s the reason it is well stated that,

“If you expect in return for being a good person you are not a good person.”

And so to end it on a good note, just a simple request to everyone reading it, “In the world of fame where you can be anything, be kind.”

So that’s it I hope you guys have understood the difference and I hope we all try and be BEING HUMAN rather than HUMAN BEING. Only then we can save this Earth for our future generations.

Thank you all so much for reading this and for the wonderful reviews on all the previous blogs.Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

A happy life…

Sounds like a dream doesn't it?
Well to the majority of the population on Earth it is yet.
And they seem to not find any solution to get it, do they?

Well to be honest here it's really easy and can be achieved by ten simple principles. Which are as follows:
1. Stop putting your happiness in someone else's hands.

2. Stop expecting too much from anyone.

3. Learn to understand the difference between self-respect and ego.

4. Mind your own business

5. Be grateful about everything.

6. Stop comparing with others.

7. Don't ever go to sleep angry.

8. Everything happens for a good reason.

9. The golden rule in use.

10. It's all a matter of perceptions.

First and second points are way interrelated so I'll explain them together.
We humans always keep our happiness in everything except in our own hands, we either keep it any of the materialistic things or into the hands of any other human being. For example, We keep saying if I get an iPhone I'll be really happy or if that person gets into that college I'll be really happy.
See any problem here?
Yes it's our expectations is what hurts when they are not reached instead why don't we start saying I'll do my best or whatever is possible from my side and rather not worry about the outcomes and then there would be a 90% chance you'll not be sad even if you don't get that specific thing.

Ego, isn't it just a small three lettered word which shouldn't have much impact on our lives? But guess what it is completely opposite, that small three letter word has divided families and all the other close people far apart. And the reason being ego takes everything too much personally.
It's good to keep self respect and it is important but it's better to learn the difference between self respect and ego. That is what now a days games are all about, they care for winning because it satisfies their ego, it's not their win but rather the other person's loss that makes the person happy.
I mean why don't people understand that nobody in the world has ever shown himself how big he is by showing how small someone else is. Don't you agree?
And trust me when I say that saying sorry first doesn't bring you down and rather does the opposite and it also creates a kind of guilty feeling in the one who didn't say it first, but either ways the one who says it first wins.

Fourth point should had rather begun with,
"Everybody's business is nobody's business."
That is true whether it's actual business part we are talking about or about any specific situation related to human lives.
Trust me when I say that our lives would be way less stressful if we just kept apart from talking about other people's problems or their lives in whatever condition it might be. Every human already his own set of problems to deal and the why not use that time instead to sort out our own problems?
Seems a better alternative and with a way better result doesn't it?

Fifth point should had been the first point actually because in this case, if that is achieved fifty percent of your job is done.
Now people find a clause that I don't have that specific materialistic thing or that specific person in my life then how can I be grateful?
Well this might seem a coldblooded answer but it is true, you should be grateful that you wake up this morning and you are still breathing because many unfortunate people in the world didn't even have that privilege. That's just the beginning of the things you should be grateful for and if I start listing all the things, then it would take forever with whatever you are having right now, no matter how unfortunate or critical situation you are in. A best habit to instil in yourself is to write down three things every night about what you are grateful for, which I myself follow very strictly om a personal level. And it does create wonders in ways which you can't even think.

Comparing has become a part of human nature because it has been instilled into your upbringing since day one. But the problem is not comparing itself, it's what you make out of it that makes your situation worse, there's not a single person in world who can deny the fact that comparing with yourself will be a liability for you. The problem is we don't compare ourselves with our previous self and rather look out in the world and compete with the best or whatever is there front of us. You'd still get better if you compare to yourself and guess what's the best part about it ? You can't lose in that no matter what, because if you lose you are still winning and if you won you did obviously win, right?😁

How many of you have the problem of not getting asleep easily or not getting a peaceful sleep at night? Many do. And that's a fact and nobody can deny that. The problem which arises when you go to sleep angry due whatever might be the reason, first you already know, you'll not be able to all asleep easily and it affects only one person an that's you. Then the next problem is whenever you fall asleep angry is that you overburden your brain, which in turn leads to a awful morning and next you know is that it even gets worse by going to work angry, and because of all those small factors you'll affect your productivity and efficiency at work, which will frustrate you even more.
So a simple rule to follow which should also be instilled as a habit is that of not going to sleep angry no matter how angry you might be or whatever might be the scenario in your case and that'll really help.

Everything happens for a good reason, there are plenty of examples out there to prove this principle right but first let me clarify for what it stands for, because it has more of a negative acceptance than positive. First of all it's no where related to any person dying or any other such stuff and it should not be perceived in that sense, so just use some of your conscience and don't try and apply it in every single thing going around you. The best example which I can give right now to this is what happened with me while I was writing this blog, I actually finished writing this blog on Tuesday itself and was ready to post it today but what happened was that I accidentally deleted that whole content permanently and there wasn't even slight chance of recovering it back and what hurt me the most was that I has spent a whole of two hours writing it and now I had nothing. Absolutely nothing except the title still standing. However after a few minutes I recovered and consolidated myself with the same principle I state in front of you and guess what was that good reason as to why it happened because I wrote even a better one the very next day with loads of more content and it just took me half an hour to do that. And I wrote this example so that you can relate to it very easily. Try and think of this kind of situation in every person's life, alive or dead it has its presence. And so just believe that, "Every adversity brings with itself and equivalent seed of advantage."

Which the golden rule which is in use and which no supreme court in the world can put a stop to?
No idea?
It's the rule that states,
"We do to or for another
We do to or for ourselves."
It can somewhat be perceived as for one to be successful others do not have to fail, or for an employer to win at business needs to win his employees first and the day he starts doing everything good for the employees the returns on this business would amplify and get better. Still just a small example which was quite infamous that is,
Mr. Ford the founder of motor company ford had been widely criticised for introducing a minimum wage of five dollars in his time which gave him everything he wanted and instead of what the competitors thought that it would put the company on the verge of bankruptcy, the results were exactly the opposite, the business bloomed even more and that wasn't just it, it gave the employer to choose his employees because every one wanted to work there.
And so we can also say that this rule merely translates to start giving before receiving which is how it is mentioned in many books by Napoleon Hill and Robert Kiyosaki. And there's a saying,
" You need not fear of competition from the person who says, I am not paid for that and I'll not do it. He will never be a dangerous competitor for your job but watch out for the who remains at his job till the work is finished and does give a little extra than he is paid for or is expected from him, for he may challenge you at the post and pass you at the grand-stand."

In the end coming to last but not the least but still one of the most important principle that is, It's always a matter of perspective. And I don't need to write much about this because it had been already mentioned in one of my previous blogs that, The garbage is present in the mind of perceiver because ragpickers perspective finds bread in that too.

There goes all the principles which if followed correctly would surely lead to happiness and prosperity and there's another saying which I would like to state,
"Until you have learned to be tolerant with those who do not always agree with you-until you have cultivated the habit of saying some kind word of those whom you do not admire-until you have formed the habit of looking for the good instead of bad there is in others, you will be neither successful nor happy."

And just for me to end this on a note I would use the word stated by Emerson,
"Every proverb, every book, every byword that belongs to thee for aid of comfort shall surely come home through open or winding passages. Every friend whom not thy fantastic will, but the great and tender soul in thee craveth, shall lock thee in his embrace."

Thank you all so much for reading this and for the wonderful reviews on all the previous blogs. Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

Slavery…

To begin with, the dictionary definition that says:
“The state of being under the control of another person.”
Most of us believe that this has been abolished way back in time, to which I beg to disagree.

Confused huh?
It’s not my call to say that without any proof, but believe me when I say that researchers have found that there are more number of people in slavery today than anytime ever in the history of mankind.

 

Slavery doesn’t just mean being physically held by a person because it can be mental too.
Two biggest and foremost things that mankind in today’s time is slavering to is “GREED” and “FEAR”, that is well stated by some wise man, “You get hold of these two things of a person, and you own that man.”
Almost 90% of a person’s day to day activities are controlled by these two very powerful emotions. As you already know any thought or action combined with emotion which can also be referred to as energy in motion, can lead to miracles or disasters at the same time.

Just a simple example to prove my point here,
Answer these questions in your own mind and you’ll get my point very clearly and effectively,
Why is a man willing to go to office even when he completely feels against it?
The Answer should be because of ‘FEAR’ of losing his job.

Why is a man willing to increase his sales even when he is earning a decent income?
The Answer should be because of his ‘GREED’ for more money.
There can be endless examples to this one but I prefer not stating anymore of them as the above two are well understood.

One of the most saddening sights at the present moment is seeing a man doing a job that he hates, where he spends about 6 out of 7 days of his week, which we can consider no better than a person who is behind the bars, the only difference being that he has a slightly better scope of freedom of one day out of seven.
It is one of the greatest tragedies of civilization. And that is all because of his habits of falling prey to “FEAR”. After all, it’s a matter of habits and we all are creatures of habits.
We are where we are and what we are because of habits of which we have become victims, voluntarily or involuntarily.

 

So a better step to self-advancement would be to grow out of this two really powerful emotions and habit of slavering to it.
An unknown author has well stated about the theory of self-advancement saying,
“Isn’t it strange that princess and kings?
And clowns that caper in sawdust rings,
And common folks like you and me
Are builders of eternity?
To each is given a bag of tools,
A shapeless mass and a book of rules
And each must make ere life has flown,
A stumbling block or a stepping stone.”

To end is the only and the most simple advice would be, to find a labor that you enjoy doing and so you won’t have to work a single day in your life and guess what you will look forward to Mondays’ rather than hating it to the bottom of your heart, because that labor wouldn’t be a burden to you at all, because you get tired not because of over-work, but from the lack of interest in what you are doing.

Thank you all so much for giving some of your precious time in reading this and for all the wonderful reviews on the previous blogs. Please, guys, do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person in the comment section because that’s the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

Government alone cannot be blamed for the poverty in India.

Government can only be blamed for about 10% of poverty which exist in any nation, all other 90% depends upon many other circumstances which we overlook while looking at this problem.

There's a saying in Robert Kiyosaki's book, 'Rich Dad Poor Dad'
that when people are lame they love to blame, and that's what people do when they are faced by a problem. They instead of searching for a solution, try and search for the person whom they can blame it on.

When it comes to money it's either their bad luck or the Government who are the victims of the blame game. People especially in India say that our country is not as rich and prosperous as America and the United Kingdom, and that's where the Government is brought in between.

There was this recent encounter of mine with one of the million Dollar valuation company which was started by a eleven year old and two sixteen year old kids in America. It wasn't a company that they bought or just a franchise bought from large corporations but rather it was their own startup which made them millionaires before they even reached the age of twenty. They had build their own idea with financial backing from a middle class parents that had brought all this home. Now can anyone explain that how can Government be blamed for their success or if they had failed.

I am sure you cannot do that. The reason being that you can clearly see it was their own creativity and hardwork and consistency which got them to where they are now.
This is what is the biggest problem with the Indian masses, they don't lack creativity, they lack in the talent of sustaining it.

Creativity was the biggest factor in those teenagers success, to which the Indian masses are completely blind to.

The biggest creativity killer we can say in India is both the parents and school system combined. All they both care about is doing what the greater mass is doing and following it blindly, just like a flock of sheep. Nobody, not even for a single instant one sits down and analyses whether its right or wrong, whether its good or bad, and rather does it because everyone else they see are doing it. They don't understand the well known fact that if you are going to follow the masses, you are only going to gain what they all gained. No difference in the results.

How can you expect a change in your outcome if you haven't changed the way of attaining it?

The school doesn't really care for creativity as they are paid for making the kids get marks in their exam, and the parents either they support the kid and sit down after their first failure which is the rarest case. The next case is they think that so many mature people out there haven't been able to do that, how come an eleven year old will be able to do that? And they just scold the child and send him away saying, it's useless without even paying attention to what the kid was saying. And that is not the end of it, they also tell them not to waste anymore time behind these things and rather focus on bringing good grades. Trust me parents when I say good grades make up great employees and not great companies. The third scenario is that, the parents tell their children to keep their idea alive till they finish their masters or graduation, and by that time the child is so tired of listening to negative affirmations that it no longer wants to implement on the idea or else somebody else has already built that company.

Somebody has well stated that.
"An idea is worth a million dollars."

But the problem is it takes a vision to see that, of which we are all trained to look away from. I didn't find even a single percent of Governments fault in these reasons I gave your for personal poverty or lack of money.

At the end its just a matter of perspectives that matters and that is what puts a million dollars in an investor's pocket without even working for that or in the company.
If you still want to blame someone for your lack of money, blame it on yourself not on anyone else.

People expect their Government to provide them with jobs and various other facilities, but my only question is, why are you waiting for them to do it for you and you lose your pride and self respect along the way rather than create something of value of your own! And then inspire other people by your hustle story!

Thank you all so much for reading this and for the wonderful reviews on all the previous blogs.Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

Cravings? Addictions? Obsessions? Procrastination? Laziness?

Does anyone of you find it really difficult to get up in the morning for going to school or maybe work or to the gym or maybe it be for any recreational activity or any other reason… but who am I kidding right? Not just anyone of you but everyone of you finds it really difficult… don't you?😂😂😂

We'll come back to it again in the later part of the blog, for now the second problem.

Many of you would find it hard to control your urge to eat some specific food item or may it be one of those bad addiction … and even that one finds really hard to resist… don't we?

We'll come back to solution of that part too but again before that lets see a third problem, after all they are all connected in one or the other way.😁

We all think of doing various stuff later in the day or any other time, that means we are procrastinating the things because we think that it would be fine if we did it sometime late don't we? In short we try and try and try to procrastinate things until a situation of do or die arises, isn't?

Next problem is obsession, it can be with anything or anyone… depending upon the circumstances,
For some it can be a person or a materialistic thing for a different person and it's always really difficult to get over obsessions especially, isn't ? Yes everyone agrees to that because we all have been there one time or the other, and guess what people generally term obsession as love even though they are nowhere near it.

Yes we finally are done with listing the problems, now lets talk about solutions for it.

First solution for laziness and procrastination, first of all they both are really different things and quite difficult to control too!
Generally laziness is what leads to procrastination so if we avoid laziness first then we don't have the problem of procrastination, you see its that easy?😁
No it just feels that way but it isn't.
First of all to avoid laziness at full potential put a habit of following the five-second rule.
The five-second rule states that, as soon as a thought comes to your mind about any stuff, which you should be doing or should have done, for example waking up early in the morning, do it within the first five seconds for a 100% accomplishment result. Because it is scientifically proved that if u don't do it within those 5 seconds then there's a 90% chance , you won't do it anyways. Trust me it creates wonders. Try and see and I guarantee you won't regret it.

Next problem which is inter-related to this problem is an excuse given by most people and that is, "I can't do it or I won't do it because I don't have time for it." Well don't hate me when I say that nobody has ever time for anything, they make time for whatever they really want to do or they have to do under any due pressure, because a person can never be stopped from doing what he really wants to do, because he is going to do it anyway. So I'll tell you a little secret here that if anyone tells you that they don't have time for any specific thing, what they really are saying is they don't want to make time and they are lying to both you and their inner self.

Then there comes procrastination,
Imagine human mind is a vehicle which is being run by a monkey,
And that is the reason we are running on auto-pilot mode for like almost all the time. So the thing is that monkey keeps making a fool out of you by making to get attracted to the stuff which is easier to do or just gives pleasure and that continues till the deadline monster or the do or die situation arises and and so at that very moment that monkey goes into all panic mode and that's when we come out of our auto-pilot mode and then we really stop procrastinating things and get charge of our lives so it's your choice whether you want to see your whole life being run by a monkey or really make something out of it.

Second excuse what we give to both ourselves and everyone around is that, "I don't feel like doing any xyz stuff" , even though they really know that they should be doing it because its good for them, but these people are run by their feelings and are not aware about whole situation and that they don't understand that feelings temporary, if you are planning to exercise in the morning then the journey is difficult only till you get out of the door, after that its a piece of cake. These people are run by their feelings on auto-pilot mode but ultimately its the monkey always behind it doing all the talking.

Last part cravings and addiction, I already talked a bit about it in my first blog but let's talk in a more detailed manner.
Whenever you get that craving or addiction monster inside your head and you know that its present that just don't fight it, eh confused?
Yes the best way you'll be able to leave the addiction or cravings is by not resisting the monster and as soon as you do that, that monster doesn't seem that big enough to conquer you, and you'll be better off without it. And best of all you'll over come it.
The best example for it is,
Practice this and you'll understand,
Follow exactly what I tell you to do,
Don't think about your mother,
Don't think about your mother,

I can bet more than half of you were thinking about your mother, well you see, this is what exactly happens when you try to resist the craving monster, the more you think of not thinking about it , the more you think about it. That's the reason I told you to stop resisting the cravings rather just let it be there and it will go away or feel smaller really soon and so don't give away so soon.

I have covered all the solution to the problems I listed above.

Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

The most important thing we learn at school is the fact that the most important things can’t be learned at school …

Schools which are a necessity evil now-a-days do not just affect parent’s pockets but also the child on emotional and psychological level. 
The biggest mistake schools are making now a days is they teach children that making mistakes is wrong, which is actually the base of learning. Its is proved by the history of mankind that it learns from making mistakes and having experiences. 
This is what becomes the biggest reason behind the child growing up to be extremely fearful as it becomes a habit by the time he reached adulthood. By that time the fear of failure for that person has risen so high that for him excitement of winning is nowhere around.
Schools punish the students who make mistakes instead of encouraging them. Schools teach us that the one who can cram the most amount of information and just vomit it out during the exams are the best students, and the ones who fail are the worst, which is not quite true, because most number of inventors and creative people which this world has seen had either failed in school or dropped out of one or else not even been to one.
Schools are the best place for the owners of multi-billion dollar companies as it creates the best employees. And how is that is what you might be wondering?
Does anyone remember how are we always motivated to bring good marks in the exams? If not then let me remind you, they always tell you study hard, bring good grades and so you can go into a good college and so you can get a high paying job in a reputed firm? 

 

You see that’s where the whole system is going wrong. Nobody cares about creativity, we are just blinded to follow what everyone else is doing in this world. Everybody dreams about getting a high paying “JOB” and various other luxuries because we are trained since childhood to look for it, Nobody thinks about creating those high paying “JOBS”. 

And even if one thinks about doing so he is thought of as psychologically unstable being because even those teachers aren’t capable enough to see that opportunity because of the training they received in their childhood, also they themselves are an employee!
Have you ever observed that an young entrepreneur always favours and supports any other upcoming entrepreneur, and that’s because they know the value of it. Its not that every startup is going to succeed but the experience and learning are way better than that much amount of money.
We know that not everyone is made to be an entrepreneur, somebody somewhere has to do jobs, but that also means not everyone is made to do jobs. Don’t you think so?
People especially in India become very de-motivated or depressed whenever it loses any match in international match or any kind of competition, but the same people if they are teachers in school, prefer taking up the sports period of a certain class just to finish their lacking syllables, see the next mistakes schools are doing?
That’s the reason someone has well stated, “As the time passes, School has become more about passing rather than learning…”
At the present time one of the most vital thing for survival is money and guess what the schools teach every other thing except the topic of money. Lets take up an example for it. Suppose there’s an ‘x’ person who has ‘y’ qualifications and due to any reason he is suffering from bankruptcy. Now he is dire need of money and his qualifications are getting him none and guess what he wasn’t taught how to make money in school but he was taught differentiation and integration and thank god he knows when did the World War happen!
There’s this story about a partially deaf four year old child who came home with a note from his teacher saying, ” Your Tommy is too stupid to learn, get him out of school.” His mother read the note and answered,”My Tommy is not too stupid to learn, I’ll teach him myself.” And that Tommy grew up to be the great Thomas Edison. Thomas Edison had only three months of formal schooling. Now can you see the reason behind him not getting discouraged after failing 1000 times while inventing the bulb.
“I am always ready to learn, but I do not always like being taught.” wisely said by Winston Churchill
“The founding fathers in their wisdom decided that children were an unnatural strain on their parents. So they provided jails called school, equipped with tortures called education.” That is what John Updike said about school.
Mark twain said, ” I never let schooling interfere with my education.”
Schools teach us that learn to bring down your competition by any means, also for you to win somebody else has to lose however as a human being that is completely wrong. For a person to reach a top position in real life can never reach that by bringing other people down, a leader always takes his people with him. This is the reason we learn to discriminate and to create an ill-feeling for our companions and for the people we term as our “BEST-FRIEND”.
School is the first place we learn to become greedy.
School systems make sure that your children enter the rat race and never quit it. And the biggest problem with the rat race is that the even if you win it, you are still a rat.
Winston Churchill has well stated that, “The first duty of a university is to teach wisdom, not trade; character, not technicalities.”
I am not against the school and neither am I saying that stop sending your child to school from Tomorrow. I am against the system by which it is run. A certain amount of education is a necessary for a human being but that’s the only thing the schools aren’t teaching these days…
Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in any of my blogs but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.

Time OR Money???

Cupcakes or pastries? iOS or Android? Pizza hut or Dominos?Book or Whatsapp? Iron man or Captain America? DC or Marvel?  BJP or Congress? Delicious food or healthy body?
Life is made up of hundreds of different choices we make everyday. Some are really tough but some are just a child’s play. Nevertheless life always give you two choices in every situation just like in your exams maybe or the choices which you get when you select a specific stream after a certain age or any other choices which you might be getting in other situations. But in most cases there’s always one right choice and another a wrong one but when life gives you two choices there’s a right choice but there’s no wrong choice, the second choice is a learning choice where two cases arise; First one is a person thinks he has made a wrong choice and regrets about it and worsens his condition and the second is that the person sees it as a learning tool and improves and tries to grow with it.

Again as you can see that’s a choice that too completely in your hands. Let me share with you most common choices made by the most successful people and that is the second one with the learning case because they believe that the only way to succeed is to fail first and make a lot of mistakes. Only and only then you’ll be able to grow wiser and make a better choice when life gives you the best options. And as you have already heard that saying, ‘Experience is the best teacher’ and guess where the experience comes from? It comes from bad experiences and where does bad experiences come from? It comes from the choice of learning. But coming back to the title time or money? What to choose? One of the most difficult question for people now a days, because there are very few lucky people who get both otherwise 90% of the people need to make a choice between these two. And guess what most people choose, yes it’s money. 

But a simple question for all those who would choose that, what are you going to do with all that money around you if you have no time to spend it. Again the choice is in your hands. In the case of the 10% extremely lucky people you wouldn’t need to worry about this but in case of the other 90% people the best option for you people is to make a perfect 50-50 balance between the two so that no one column grows at once and makes you one of the most unluckiest people on earth. So I guess either you make a right choice in that or else you learn from it. In the end it all depends upon you!

Please guys do forgive me for my grammatical errors which might have occurred in my blog but feel free to correct me in person or even in the comments because thats the way to improve and I promise I shall improve myself by every upcoming day and blog.